My wife left me and turned back to Russia with my daughter and step daughter 3 years ago. But we did not divorce till now. She has said she did not have time to do it with many procedures of Russian bureaucracy. It is not too cogent to say not to have enough time in 3 years but it is clear she has not loved me. Me vice versa have always loved her including now. She is the person deserves to be loved most I have ever seen.
Recently she declared that she has started a love affair with an English man and she will divorce from me soon. She says she loves him and may get marry with him and move to England to live together with all the kids. My wife has 2 kids from her first husband and from me and her English lover has one daughter. My wife says she has not decide to move to England to live with him yet, perhaps she may go or perhaps not. She says she has doubts if my step daughter can study in England or not. She afraids it may be iddicult for her to study in an English universtiy with her insufficient command of English. Perhaps because of this reason she will give up to move to him.
So my wife creates her and her kids' destinies depends on her senior daughter's education life and her capabilities. I asked her if she loves that English man or not and she replied me as this was a ridiculous question. If she loves him can she give up from him for my step daughter's education potential? Is it more important? In this case why does not she prefer a Russian man who she can establish a demostic life and provides her daughter an university education without a language problem? And it is even more shocking, my wife considers more priority and pays more attention to her senior daughter's education than her whole life. If she can give up from her new beloved English guy for this reason it means she manages her love life and her own destiny depends on her daughter. I dont criticize. But she just is not aware the fact of it is much more important for her daughters not to have a father, or not to have their real fathers and to live with lack of it than not to study in an university. My wife sacrifices for wrong objective. She tries to save her daughter's education with the price of her own love life but she did not do it years ago when she divorced from her father. If she can form her future and personal life in order to her daughter's university education, she had to do it by not to divorce from her husbands to save her kid's souls from demages of missing a father. Moreover she creates her both daughter's destiny depends on the education capability of one of them. I believe it s bad for my daughter to move to England and live there but sure my wife may think different. If to live in England, to be there is good for my daughter will she devest her from this for her sister to be able to study in her native language? My wife left the fathers of her daughters two times before, my step daughter was 4 years old when she lost her father and my daughter was 1,5 years old. Anybody may search and find out scientific articles and studies on the topic how it is bad and harmful for such small girls to lost fathers. I wish my wife was sensitive to the fact of negative effects of to be without fathers for her daughter as much as she is to university. If my wife can give up her love and private life, if she can give up happiness with a man for even education, she could put up a unhappy marriage for her daughters' lives and happinesses together with loved fathers.
I still wonder if my wife loves that guy though she says it is a ridiculous question. The answer contains much meaning. If can she give up from him for her daughter's education? And above all if did she do it before with me? If was it the rea reason for her to braek up with me? My step daughter studied in high school but a correspondent one. My wife studied her and twice a year she passed exams in Russia. She would face this problem also in Turkey. She would have a language problem for university education if she stayed in Turkey. If my wife prefer me or her university? If I would be left what ever I would do? If even if id not make that suggesition to my wife to sned her to Russia to live with the grandma and grandpa.
My wife and my step daughter constantly tried to teach Russian to my then 1 y.o. daughter. It seemed to me strange to be in such a hurry to taech Russian to a baby would live in Turkey.
If I would be victim and even my wife herself in any case like that English guy now?
Recently she declared that she has started a love affair with an English man and she will divorce from me soon. She says she loves him and may get marry with him and move to England to live together with all the kids. My wife has 2 kids from her first husband and from me and her English lover has one daughter. My wife says she has not decide to move to England to live with him yet, perhaps she may go or perhaps not. She says she has doubts if my step daughter can study in England or not. She afraids it may be iddicult for her to study in an English universtiy with her insufficient command of English. Perhaps because of this reason she will give up to move to him.
So my wife creates her and her kids' destinies depends on her senior daughter's education life and her capabilities. I asked her if she loves that English man or not and she replied me as this was a ridiculous question. If she loves him can she give up from him for my step daughter's education potential? Is it more important? In this case why does not she prefer a Russian man who she can establish a demostic life and provides her daughter an university education without a language problem? And it is even more shocking, my wife considers more priority and pays more attention to her senior daughter's education than her whole life. If she can give up from her new beloved English guy for this reason it means she manages her love life and her own destiny depends on her daughter. I dont criticize. But she just is not aware the fact of it is much more important for her daughters not to have a father, or not to have their real fathers and to live with lack of it than not to study in an university. My wife sacrifices for wrong objective. She tries to save her daughter's education with the price of her own love life but she did not do it years ago when she divorced from her father. If she can form her future and personal life in order to her daughter's university education, she had to do it by not to divorce from her husbands to save her kid's souls from demages of missing a father. Moreover she creates her both daughter's destiny depends on the education capability of one of them. I believe it s bad for my daughter to move to England and live there but sure my wife may think different. If to live in England, to be there is good for my daughter will she devest her from this for her sister to be able to study in her native language? My wife left the fathers of her daughters two times before, my step daughter was 4 years old when she lost her father and my daughter was 1,5 years old. Anybody may search and find out scientific articles and studies on the topic how it is bad and harmful for such small girls to lost fathers. I wish my wife was sensitive to the fact of negative effects of to be without fathers for her daughter as much as she is to university. If my wife can give up her love and private life, if she can give up happiness with a man for even education, she could put up a unhappy marriage for her daughters' lives and happinesses together with loved fathers.
I still wonder if my wife loves that guy though she says it is a ridiculous question. The answer contains much meaning. If can she give up from him for her daughter's education? And above all if did she do it before with me? If was it the rea reason for her to braek up with me? My step daughter studied in high school but a correspondent one. My wife studied her and twice a year she passed exams in Russia. She would face this problem also in Turkey. She would have a language problem for university education if she stayed in Turkey. If my wife prefer me or her university? If I would be left what ever I would do? If even if id not make that suggesition to my wife to sned her to Russia to live with the grandma and grandpa.
My wife and my step daughter constantly tried to teach Russian to my then 1 y.o. daughter. It seemed to me strange to be in such a hurry to taech Russian to a baby would live in Turkey.
If I would be victim and even my wife herself in any case like that English guy now?
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